I think those of us who met guys (or gals) on this site who were liars should speak up and protect everyone else. If you email me I can tell you about 2 scumbags I met through here (one was abusive & controlling while the other was a married man who exhibited most of the signs I mentioned in my earlier post about married guys.. it only took me one date to realize he was married). There was another guy I met on this site who was rude and stood me up repeatedly and then later he admitted to being gay. I asked why he didnt try a gay site or post looking for a man and he said he's in the closet but (apparently) has no problem lying & misleading a straight/asexual/celibate woman into a relationship with him while he has a affairs with guys. What a scumbag!!