Looking for something higher... As a 38-year-old virgin, I think it's safe to say I'm celibate, even if it's not necessarily by plan or design. It's hard to find people who can get bast that barier (no pun intended). It isn't the most interesting thing about me and it doesn't define me by any means, but I do need someone who is interested in the deeper aspects of a relationship, and who don't mind waiting until the time is right to become physical. A relationship is more spiritual than s----l, to me...
I'm a sensitive artist type, a little shy, and I'm not a dating site pro (nor certainly a dating pro in general). I prefer a gradual, friendly approach to dating. I do have a fiery side, as I am extremely liberal and opinionated about it. I am looking for someone who can see eye-to-eye with me on this, not to agree with me all the time, of course, but be enough of like mind that it isn't contentious, and we can have intelligent, varied conversations. I crack myself up, if I do say so myself. I want someone who can keep up with my rather big personality.
Aubade, 54
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Denver, CO, USA
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About Me
Gender
Female
Orientation
Straight
Height
5'07"
Weight
220 lbs
Body Type
voluptuous
Movies
indie, romantic comedy, drama, romance, sci-fi
Orientation
straight
Eye Color
brown
Hair Color
auburn
Ethnicity
Caucasian
Relationship
single - never married
Have Kids
no - maybe with the right person
Education Level
college grad
Profession
Artistic / Musical, Clerical / Administrative
Income level
$25,000-$50,000
Do you smoke?
no - will not date a smoker
I currently live
with roommate(s)
Socially, I am
better in small groups, side kick, shy at first, but warm up quickly, loner
Political Views
democrat, liberal
Food Related
Omnivore, Soul Food, Fine Dining, Italian, Comfort, Chinese, Japanese, Chocoholic
Personality
intellectual, fun loving, geek, liberal, romantic, tree hugger, introvert
Individuality
psychic
Religious Views
Not Religious, but Spiritual, Not Religious
I'm looking for
mr. right, friends only, the yin to my yang, soulmate, conversation, dating, relationship, romance
My Sign
sagittarius : nov. 22-dec. 21
Gender
Female
Music
Classical, Punk, Rock, Progressive Rock, Post Rock, Pop, Jazz, Indie, Hard Rock, Folk, Alternative Rock
Hair Style
long hair, bob cut, ponytail
Fitness & Sports
yoga
Looking for
Hobbies & Interests
cooking & recipes, dancing, gardening, internet, larp, manga, movies, music, photography, reading, swimming, travel, video games, weather, writing, yoga
Their Body Type
a few extra pounds, average, large, overweight, pleasantly plump, skinny, slender, thick
Movies
bollywood, comedy, drama, indie, romance, romantic comedy, sci-fi
Orientation
straight
Hair Color
light brown, red, a little gray, auburn, black, dark brown, depends on the day of the week
Relationship
divorced, single - never married, widowed
Have Kids
no - do not want kids, no - maybe with the right person, yes - grown and out of the house
Their Education Level
college grad, currently in college, post-Graduate, some college
Do they smoke?
no - will not date a smoker
Do they drink?
no, teetotaller
They currently live
alone, family and friends visit often, with pets, with roommate(s)
Socially, they are
anti-social, better in small groups, comic relief, home body, loner, shy at first, but warm up quickly, side kick
Political Views
democrat, green party, independent, liberal, not interested in politics, socialist
Personality
activist, flirt, fun loving, geek, intellectual, introvert, liberal, loner, lover, nerd, pirate, playa hater, professional, punk, romantic, tree hugger
Individuality
psychic
Religious Views
Agnostic, Atheist, Buddhist, Not Religious, Not Religious, but Spiritual
They are looking for
conversation, dating, friends only, miss right, relationship, romance, soulmate, the yin to my yang, travel companion
Pets
Dog, Dogs, Fish
Music
Alternative Rock, Bluegrass, Classical, Folk, Hard Rock, Indie, Jazz, Pop, Post Rock, Progressive Rock, Punk, Rock
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