Switching from enjoyment to emotion I'm not sure what I'm looking for in here. Maybe just finding like-minded people to share some thoughts & feelings. I'm a celibate gay man, religious (tantric)... I've lived for 7 years pretty much alone, and found out needing platonic, partly physical friendship. But as I've been looking around people, I've found they often want way too much.
But I also don't think it's either everything or nothing. I mean I miss human warmth and touch. My celibacy won't break from those things, because I'm very happy with it. For me it's not a way to 'mortify' carnal needs, instead it's a way of life that I like. It brings more subtle things up in a friendship. To my disappointment it's not what gay men usually tend to prefer. It could be this time, which is so overly-se---lly centered. But sometimes I think people are too much following some formulas in their social life, interpreting these formulas to be their actual needs... I don't know and I don't want to judge anyone! I'd just like to find romance without S-- and subtle ways to experience the warmth and caring. Having said 'romance' I have to specify however, that my religion has changed in me the fact, that I don't want anymore an exclusive relationships, I don't want to belong to someone, or bind anyone. If the heart functions well, then I think there is room for some romance with every living being (at least this is my ideal that I recognize).
Superplatonic, 44
currently offlineHelsinki, Finland
Switching from enjoyment to emotion
About Me
Gender
Male
Orientation
Gay
Height
5'11"
Weight
190 lbs
Hobbies & Interests
music, photography
Body Type
average
Orientation
celibate, gay
Eye Color
green
Hair Color
blond
Ethnicity
Caucasian
Have Kids
no - do not want kids
Education Level
Master's Degree
Profession
Other
Income level
Less than $25,000
Do you smoke?
no - open to dating smokers though
Do you drink?
no
I currently live
alone
Socially, I am
loner
Food Related
Japanese
Personality
romantic, loner
Individuality
artist
Religious Views
Buddhist
I'm looking for
something interesting, conversation, dating, fun, penpal, relationship, travel companion, romance
My Sign
scorpio : oct. 23-nov. 21
Gender
Male
Music
Relaxation and Meditation
Hair Style
straight, short hair
Fitness & Sports
hiking, yoga
Health Related
meditation, holistic treatment, faith healing, ayurveda
Languages
English, Finnish, Russian, Swedish
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Voluntary Celibacy
1044 membersA group for those who have chosen to abstain from sexual activity for personal reasons.
Seeking Friends
786 membersA group for those who are seeking to make friends of any gender but not seeking a sexual relationship.
Seeking Platonic Relationship
610 membersA group for those looking for a relationship based purely on friendship.
Life-long Celibate
213 membersA group for those who have chosen to remain celibate for life.
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