Relax8sun, 63

Gay Romantic Asexual - no S-- My friends often wonder why I've only had one relationship and rarely date. I'm considered by many to be an attractive, intelligent, warm, successful professional guy with good manners, a nice home, financial stability -- someone that "should" be in a loving relationship.

Now that I found about asexuality, I finally understand and feel like I fit in! I DO love intimacy -- kissing, massage, hugging and cuddling. Anything that is gentle and non-threatening. I'm very ------- with someone I love, so I am far from a cold fish -- I have a libido but I just don't associate that with the person I love.

Life and love is meant to be shared. I'm hoping to find a genuinely nice guy who shares my feelings on intimacy (and lack of feelings about sex).

I am at a good place in my life and am planning to retire early. I love being outside (pool, beach, events), travel (cruises are great), barbeques, being with friends and am very flexible because I love making people happy. I'm easy to talk to, am fun to be around and love to laugh.

I know this is said often, but I am told OFTEN that I do not look or act my age (and I take that as a compliment)! I've dated guys much younger, same age and much older -- so a connection for me is much more than physical.

Please don't let distance stop you from saying hi!