Asexual Seeking a Lifelong Best Friend Looking for an asexual male (or female) for a strictly platonic, lifelong friendship. I've tried other dating sites in the past, until I finally realized that what I really want is just a friend, albeit a very close and special one. Someone with whom I can feel like a kid again. Someone I can be myself around, and who would accept me just as I am. A pal, a "partner in crime," to share misadventures that we could laugh about years later. A kind and quiet person who loves animals and nature, and appreciates the simple things in life.
Growing up, I had no interest in finding a boyfriend (in the romantic, dating sense), and even less interest in S-- or parties. I was happy with my simple life, free of drama and boyfriend troubles. Today, none of that has changed. I'm usually content to be alone, but it would be nice to find a special person to share my life with.
I'm an uncomplicated person who enjoys my hobbies, job, and family. I can be stubborn, but I'm also laid-back and easy to get along with - I'm not into arguing and debating for no good reason. Some of my hobbies (that aren't listed below) are: designing houses, drawing horses and cartoons, cross-stitch sewing, camping, canoeing and sailing, exploring abandoned houses, and vacationing in Maine, Cape Cod, and the Adirondack Mountains. I sell my photography in craft shows and a local art gallery. I am a published author of three books: two children's novels and a memoir. I play rhythm guitar in my church's worship band.
I'm also on AVEN (my name there is "Stormwind.") Thanks for reading, and best wishes in your search.
Jode77, 47
currently offlineTiconderoga, NY, USA
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Asexual Seeking a Lifelong Best Friend
About Me
Gender
Female
Orientation
Friendship Only
Height
5'07"
Weight
150 lbs
Hobbies & Interests
writing, reading, photography, painting, music, internet, horseback riding, history, gardening, fleamarkets, fishing
Body Type
average
Movies
comedy, drama, romantic comedy
Orientation
asexual, straight
Eye Color
hazel
Hair Color
dark brown
Ethnicity
Caucasian
Relationship
single - never married
Have Kids
no - do not want kids
Education Level
college grad
Profession
Other
Income level
Less than $25,000
Do you smoke?
no - open to dating smokers though
Do you drink?
no
I currently live
with pets, alone
Socially, I am
shy at first, but warm up quickly, loner, home body, a couch potato
Political Views
not interested in politics
Food Related
Chinese, Comfort, Diet Every Now & Then, Fast Food, Italian, Junk Food Junkie
Personality
tree hugger, thrifty, loner, introvert, artistic
Individuality
artist
Religious Views
Christian
I'm looking for
soulmate, travel companion, penpal, friends only
My Sign
i don't believe in zodiac signs
Pets
Horse, Fish, Ferrets, Dog, Cats
Gender
Female
Music
Bluegrass, Rock, Folk, Country, Christian Rock, Celtic
Hair Style
long hair, ponytail
Fitness & Sports
hiking, walking
Languages
English
Looking for
Orientation
asexual, straight
Relationship
single, single - never married
Have Kids
no - open to adoption, no - do not want kids
Do they drink?
no, socially
Socially, they are
shy at first, but warm up quickly, loner, home body, better in small groups
They are looking for
miss right, friends only, penpal, dating, conversation, soulmate, travel companion
Pets
Turtles, Snakes, Birds, Cats, Dogs, Farm Animals, Ferrets, Fish, Guinea Pigs, Horses, Iguana, Monkey, No pets currently (but like them), Pot-Bellied Pig, Rabbits, Rats, Small Furry Creature, Spiders
Gender
Female, Male
Languages
English
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