Hbarrowinsb, 52

what has been missing from most recent relationships is a relationship with a good friendship at its core where we enjoy each other’s company and plan life events together such as traveling, or shared interest in activities locally. that is what i’m looking for. in the past i had been s----l, and it was in the forefront, however after being in s----l relationships void of genuine intimacy, honesty, and friendship, i find i have been missing what truly matters most and that is genuine friendship. i have been on other sites but hesitant to move forward with anyone of interest as i don’t want to deal with the s----l expectations as that is often prioritized on other sites, and has been damaging in past relationships. my intent is to pursue relationships differently moving forward and that is on relationship/friendship first and see what develops from there and if it’s a friendship than i’ve gained what is most important.