So this is me: Hi,
I'm an asexual female who has had very little luck trying to find someone to connect with since I accepted that fact that I'm not into s--.
I'm 35, admittedly overweight but working on it. Bit of an academic- would still be in school if I could afford it- so I love learning new things.
I'm a huge geek- love video games, comic books, movies, even just reading (such a book nerd). I also enjoy the arts and draw, paint and knit in my spare time.
I have an interesting career that I love as a library technician and two cats who pretty much rule my life.
What I am seeking is someone I can connect with where the worry and anxiety I feel over having to be "intimate" won't be an issue. I love cuddling, hugging, holding hands, even giving/receiving back rubs but more then that and I go into anxiety overload.
Ideally I want to meet someone who'd also be keen on starting a family (eventually), through most likely adoption, or be a foster family to needy kids. I know this is something I can do on my own, but I also know having a loving partner would be preferable.
I'm an introvert, a great listener, very patient, kinda wacky, I love nature but tend to be a bit of a homebody- that being said though I can easily be talked into trying new things
I don't drink but I am pro-420- but nothing harder than that. I LOVE the UK and hope to travel back there in the next couple of years for a decent vacation - 2 months
I see life as an adventure and I'm hoping to find someone who can share it with me.
Hopefully this didn't come off as terrible needy or corny Tis the nature of these sites.
So please contact me, even if all you're looking for is a friend, cause you can never have enough good friends in life
Firechild80, 45
currently offlineVancouver, Canada
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So this is me:
About Me
Looking for
Hobbies & Interests
baking, board games, chess, comic books, computers, cooking & recipes, cosplay, fleamarkets, gardening, history, horseback riding, internet, killing zombies, larp, magic, manga, movies, music, nature, painting, photography, puzzles and brain teasers, reading, science, television, travel, video games, writing
Their Body Type
a few extra pounds, athletic, average, disabled, fat and proud, pleasantly plump, slender
Movies
action, animation, classics, comedy, drama, fantasy, horror, psychological thrillers, sci-fi
Orientation
celibate, gay, lesbian, straight, transgender-ftm, transgender-mtf, asexual
Eye Color
gray, green, hazel, black, blue, brown
Hair Color
a little gray, auburn, black, blond, dark brown, depends on the day of the week, light brown, red, white / gray
Have Kids
no - definitely want them though, no - maybe with the right person, no - open to adoption, yes
Their Education Level
Bachelor's Degree, college grad, currently in college, Doctorate, graduate school, high school grad, Master's Degree, post-Graduate, some college
Profession
Artistic / Musical, Clerical / Administrative, Computer related / Hardware, Construction / Craftsman, Education / Academic Research, Entertainment / Media, Hospitality / Travel, Internet, Journalist / Writer, Legal Services, Manufacturing / Distributions, Medical / Health Services, Plumbing / Electrical / Contracting, Politics / Goverment / Military, Sales / Marketing, Technical / Science / Engineering
Income level
that's private
Do they smoke?
420, hookah, socially
Do they drink?
no, socially
They currently live
alone, family and friends visit often, on a pirate ship, with kids, with pets, with roommate(s)
Socially, they are
a couch potato, comic relief, home body, shy at first, but warm up quickly, side kick
Political Views
democrat, green party, liberal, ndp - the new democratic party (canada), socialist, the liberal democrats (uk), the liberal party (canada)
Food Related
Always Dieting, Chocoholic, Diet Every Now & Then, Gluten-free Diet, Grain-free Diet, Junk Food Junkie
Personality
artistic, clown, fun loving, geek, hipster, intellectual, introvert, liberal, loner, nerd, pirate, professional, romantic, thrifty, tree hugger
Individuality
artist, beard, circus clown, freak, magician, ninja, rocket scientist, sculptor, superhero, superhero sidekick, vampire, werewolf
Religious Views
Agnostic, Atheist, Deist, Not Religious, Not Religious, but Spiritual, Pagan, Pantheist, Wiccan
They are looking for
friends only, miss right, penpal, romance, soulmate, the yin to my yang
Their Sign
i don't believe in zodiac signs
Pets
Cat, Cats, Dog, Dogs, Horse, Horses, No pets currently (but like them)
Gender
Female, Male, Transgender
Music
Alternative Rock, Celtic, Folk, Pop, Relaxation and Meditation, Rock
Fitness & Sports
armchair quarterback, cycling, fencing, hiking, hockey, swimming, walking
Languages
English
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Seeking Non-Sexual Marriage
362 membersA group for those who are looking for a marriage without any sexual activity.
Life-long Celibate
220 membersA group for those who have chosen to remain celibate for life.
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