Hello, fellow web surfers! I'm an intersex individual (and ovarian cancer survivor) who has found profound peace in embracing my authentic self. The health challenges I've experienced have given me a deep appreciation for meaningful connections that transcend traditional expectations.
As someone who identifies as aromantic and asexual (aro-ace), I believe genuine intimacy comes in countless forms. My beliefs align with relationship anarchy—believing that connections should be negotiated by the people involved, rather than prescribed by traditional social norms.
What drew me to this community is the shared understanding that profound bonds don't require s----l expression. I value conversations, creative collaboration, and mutual support. Human connection is beutiful in its many forms and complexity, on multiple spectrums.
I'm looking for open-minded friends and travel companions who are interested in exploring what meaningful relationships can look like when freed from societal scripts. Whether it's discussing philosophy over tea or simply being present for each other during life's challenges, I believe in creating connections that honor each person.
My celibacy is both an intrinsic part of my identity (#Artemis) and a thoughtful choice that aligns with my values. It's not about restriction, but about liberation—creating space for connections that feel safe, authentic, and nourishing.
Boulyn, 26
2 weeks ago
Salem, OR, USA
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About Me
Gender
Trans Male, Gender Nonconforming, Intersex
Height
5'8"
Weight
160 lbs
Hobbies & Interests
Coupon clipping, Wine tasting, Taxidermy, Sewing, Reading, Puzzles and brain teasers, Photography, Nature, Music, Magic, Gardening, Writing, Cooking & recipes, Chess, Baking
Body Type
Average
Movies
Fantasy, Horror, Psychological thrillers, Sci-fi, Westerns
Eye Color
Brown
Hair Color
Red
Ethnicity
Caucasian
Relationship
Polyamorous, Single
Have Kids
No - and am unable to
Education Level
Some college
Profession
Internet
Income level
That's private
Do you smoke?
Daily, Electronic cigarettes
Do you drink?
Liquor
I currently live
In a van down by the river
Socially, I am
Loner, Side kick, A total freak
Political Views
Socialist
Food Related
Chocoholic, Sushi, Lactose Intolerant (am I sharing too much?)
Personality
Punk, Activist, Artistic, Free spirit, Frugal, Introvert, Liberal, Playa hater, White trash, Unconventional, Tree hugger, Thrifty
Individuality
Pirate at heart
Religious Views
Agnostic
I'm looking for
Travel companion, Relationship, Conversation
My Sign
Taurus : april 20-may 20
Pets
No pets currently (but like them)
Music
Celtic, Classical, Dance, Trance, Techno, Industrial, Folk
Hair Style
Caesar
Fitness & Sports
Bodybuilding, Walking
Health Related
Cancer survivor, Chronic health issues
Languages
English, American Sign Language (ASL)
My Preferred Pronouns
He/Him/His
Social Justice
Cancel Culture Intolerant, Vaccination Advocate, Union Advocate, Pro-Life Intolerant, Pro-Choice Advocate, Nuclear Technology Advocate, Mens Rights Movement Intolerant, Me Too Movement Advocate, LGBTQ Issues Advocate, Immigrant Rights Movement Advocate, Feminist Movement Advocate, Death Penalty Intolerant, Climate Change Believer, Blue Lives Matter Intolerant, Black Lives Matter Advocate, All Lives Matter Intolerant
Love Language
Words of Affirmation, Acts of Service, Physical Touch, Quality Time, Receiving Gifts
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Asexual
661 membersA group for people who have no interest in any type of sexual activity or sexual relationship.
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133 membersA group for those who are unable to engage in sexual activity due to medical reasons.
Seeking Friends
795 membersA group for those who are seeking to make friends of any gender but not seeking a sexual relationship.
Seeking Non-Sexual Relationship
817 membersA group for those seeking a relationship without any sexual activity.
Seeking Platonic Relationship
625 membersA group for those looking for a relationship based purely on friendship.
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