i have a question

[churrleader]

i've heard lots of arguments about the whole celibacy thing.
to start off, i've NEVER had s--.
but, i've made out with a few guys. i've given hand jobs. i've been fingered. i've given b--- j--s.
does this disqualify me from the whole asexual/celibacy deal?
some have told me it does, others have told me it doesn't.

[whalewatcherii (deleted)]

`I wouldn't think so. I'm new at this too & I'm no virgin. I think it's up to the 2 people involved, how much 'making out' is going to happen between them. On the A s----l site I found, I read a lot in their forums, before I found this site. I saw many who didn't want any contact w/anyone, physically, se---lly, etc. None of it. Then, there were some who wanted minimal contact, like holding hands, some cuddling. The majority I read w/the A s----l site, was very low contact, which was frustrating to me, b/c I want to share affection w/who I'm with.
If you make that known ahead of time, there will be no surprises then. I would think that only other people who wanted that too, would be interested in contacting you, unless you also included pen pals, just friends, etc.
I tried to cover a wide area, b/c this is new to me, & I don't want to be too exclusive of too many out there, especially w/any new friends I may be able to make & talk about this with.
I think you're fine.