I've been abstinent for 12 yrs. It didn't start out that way. I just wanted a break from all the toxic relationships i was attracting. That led me to do a loooooot of self healing because i was attracting me. So once i decided i was ready to date again, i noticed how this ran many away. Questions arose to see if they waited long enough that i would give in. Eventually it became a chore that i no longer wanted to entertain. Dating while abstaining is difficult, yet i think its possible. I just haven't had that experience yet. And to be honest, the older I get the less it even matters.
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-EmpressSwitch