Yakob203, 39

hello, first thing, it was really hard deciding to join this. i have physical trauma that makes it hurt to have s--. have been trying to find a cure/fix my unique problem for years. now it looks like there might be a potential drug but it is probably around at least 7 years from being approved by fda if it does get approved lol. not sure how many others on here have a similar situation, and i felt bad doing this with the potential that it might change one day, but i'm not going to feel sorry for myself and punish myself for all those years and be lonely, especially with no guarantees that it can be reversed.

so i guess i don't really identify as asexual, i guess involuntary celibate maybe, as i'm attracted and still want to be close and share in all other things in a close loving relationship.

in terms of what you can expect from me: no-bs, tell you like i see it, sneaky sense of humor, mentally and emotionally resilient, curious, love to learn and experience new things, etc. i have awesome family that lives close that i love spending time with. i love all types of music, being active/going to gym, playing quest 3 vr i just got when i have time, and would love someone to go do activities with (edm/electronic show, movie, whatever). bought a mountain bike last year and want to get into that more in the coming years as well.

i'm hoping that you are allergic to drama and playing games like i am. i've already been through so much s--- with what i've been going through personally, and been alone for most of my adult life so i'll pick being alone than dealing with bs any day. i want someone that can bring that extra spice and excitement to my life where we complement and are there for each other.

hope i'm not missing anything. well, see ya later!