Wiki8, 49

Hello.

It took me a long time to figure out that I´m ace and not interested in a s----l relationships but still looking for a relation. After all I´m a passionate person with a need for affection - emotional and physical (cuddling, kissing etc.) which I can´t get from a cat or a dog although I like both of them. I just don´t care about S-- which is to me a drive or an instinct but not an indication of love or sympathy.

About me:
I am not a political person but have a left approach, interests in alternativ culture (f.e. indie pop and new wave music, independant movies and documentaries) as well as in more "high" culture like baroque concerts, museums, theater (Shakespear and Chekhov), vegetarian food and sometimes fancy restaurants, I like to go swimming but I´m not a sport buddy, I speak German, decent English and French and would like to learn Spanish

About you:
attractiv (on the first or the second sight - but still, I am superficial), making me laugh and making me think. I know this is quite a commonplace - but that´s the difficulty about finding a match.

I´m not interested in a long-distance relationship but in someone to share my daily life with instead of some holidays or weekends. Therefor it would be great to have some interests in common - at least there should be something more to talk about than who´s doing the shopping.
I would be willing to move if I think it could work and the spot would attract me without you as well...
I have to admit that I don´t believe in online dating because the expactations are higher than in real life. But at the same time it´s quite unlikely to meet a partner in the streets who doesn´t care about s--. So, who knows - I´m not in a hurry.