Thenotebook, 59

Searching for kindred spirit I am an intelligent individual who has chosen to live the celibate lifestyle. I have been here before so its not a new thing for me. Its been about almost a year since I have had a relationship. So now I have decided to get my feet wet now that its summertime. Just because we have chosen to be celibate should not mean we can't still have someone to love should it? My mate should be respectful, intelligent or what my friends call brainy like me. I am looking for the yin to my yang. Yes I have asthma but date smokers. I am goofy and sarcastic at times so someone who gets me would be great. Someone who loves to hold hands and open doors. My mate has to love and respect kids. We should be able to come together without being over bearing or letting jealousies get in the way. I love a confident mate, but not an arrogant one. He or she must love to communicate. I want to be able to talk about life and love and also work through problems if they arise. So things won't work themselves out if you hold your feelings in. Just my opinion. Feel feel to write if you have any questions also race and age is not a factor for me. I love all people so why should I box myself in...