Celibate Passions

looking for a best friend

I am, as far as I know, an aromantic asexual. I would like a very close best friend for life. The problem is that everyone else looking for this seems to also have this romantic/physical attraction side that is missing in me or that I just don't understand. Even so many asexuals do too, and that is even harder to feel like an outsider even again or what is wrong with me. So it's like I'm left alone, everyone either wants that side, or, already has it with someone else so then doesn't need a deep friendship from me very much. I am a christian and my relationship with God is my meaning and purpose and joy in life. I would like to know someone who has this same desire or interest to know Him. It fits me to be single with just God as my closest person but I would still like a close friend and love them, just platonically, and with God's love like I want to love everyone. I don't have or want a super active social life. I like to think, talk about God and other deep topics, pray, go for walks, read, and help and serve people. I am really burdened about the unreached and people around the world without basic needs even and want to be more involved even if "just" prayer and helping support organizations and ministries more directly involved in those locations. In the past few years I really got into bike riding and average several hundred miles over the summertime. I also started lea Ing Amigurumi (crocheting small animals and toys) in 2017 and really find it fun, to give away some but also keep some, I am pretty juvenile in ways I guess but it brings joy. I would enjoy getting to know someone else and would like to share in their hobbies and interests too.  

Hobbies & Interests

puzzles and brain teasers, bible study, reading, chess, science, gardening, internet, movies, music

Body Type

average

Movies

drama

Orientation

Asexual

Eye Color

brown, green

Hair Color

light brown

Ethnicity

Caucasian

Relationship

single, single - never married

Have Kids

no - open to adoption, no - do not want kids

Education Level

some college

Profession

Other

Income level

$50,000-$100,000

Do you smoke?

no - will not date a smoker

Do you drink?

no

I currently live

alone, with pets

Socially, I am

better in small groups, loner, shy at first, but warm up quickly

Political Views

independent

Food Related

Indian, Mediterranean, Vegetarian, Candy is a Food Group, Right?

Personality

intellectual, introvert

Religious Views

Christian

Drugs

never, prescription only

I'm looking for

relationship, friends only, penpal

My Sign

i don't believe in zodiac signs

Pets

Cat, Cats

Gender

Female

Music

Christian Rock, Gospel

Hair Style

short hair

Fitness & Sports

cycling, jogging, walking

Health Related

chronic health issues

Languages

English

Myers-Briggs®

INTJ

My Preferred Pronouns

She/Her/Hers

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