Hidden Photo ImageHidden Photo ImageHidden Photo Image

  • BENSPINOZA Identifies As:
  • Gender: Male
  • Orientation:Straight
  • STATS Height: 5'08"
  • Weight: 000 lbs
  • Age: 65 years old.

  • Last time online Within 2 weeks
  • EDIT

Mini-messages             Question Mark

BENSPINOZA has no messages.

Other places to find me:

    BENSPINOZA has no current links.

Click to open
My Passions Network Sites:

    For Logged In Members Only


    No gifts yet

Find Other Singles In

My Description

Seek asexual but affectionate soulmate

I'm an intellectual, musician (drummer/percussion), secular, nontraditional, free spirit asexual/low libido/celibate(pick one)searching for a female soulmate and companion, someone I can trust and confide in sans judgment unless its constructive and done with sensitivity and support. Among my interests are: music, leftist politics, intellectual conversations and pursuits, philosophy, the arts and humanities, concerts, film, festivals, book talks, museums, traveling--you know, things like that. I am a very youthful (so I'm told), gentle, emotionally and financially stable, articulate, funny and punny, follicly-challenged, bespectacled goateed hip and hep SWM 60-something who truly gets along comfortably well with people in their 20s as well as those older. Age/generation and race/ethnicities are no barriers to me if they are not to you. While I prefer meeting someone in the Washington DC metro area, geography need not be an absolute barrier, depending, so other locales are cool, depending. I may have low libido but I am affectionate and crave affection. Most important to me is finding true companionship with someone real, genuine, caring and loving to connect with, to relate to and feel comfortable with, to share lives and to trust confidences with. I have so much to give and to share with another. I am primarily interested in a platonic relationship, but open to whatever transpires as long as it is positive. I prefer that you be single. I identify as romantic asexual craving affectionate touching, hugging and kissing. Oh, and why am I not married by now? "A married philosopher belongs to comedy." And yet, I do like comedy as life itself, mine anyway, is a theater of the absurd.

About Me  (My Interests / Hobbies / Groups)

Body Type
a few extra pounds
animation, classics, indie, psychological thrillers, horror, romantic comedy, sci-fi, drama, comedy
celibate, straight, asexual
Eye Color
Hair Color
single - never married
Have Kids
no - do not want kids
Education Level
college grad
Other, Artistic / Musical, Clerical / Administrative, Internet, Education / Academic Research
Income level
that's private
Do you smoke?
no - open to dating smokers though
I currently live
Socially, I am
shy at first, but warm up quickly, loner, home body, side kick, flirt, better in small groups, comic relief, a couch potato
Political Views
progressive, independent, green party, socialist, liberal
Food Related
Indian, Chinese, Diet Every Now & Then, Vegetarian, Comfort, Italian, Fast Food, Eat Out Frequently, Fine Dining, BRAINS!!!, Organic
hipster, professional, intellectual, introvert, extrovert, artistic, liberal, loner, activist, nerd, flirt, fun loving, romantic, lover
Religious Views
Agnostic, Pantheist, Jewish, Atheist, Not Religious
let's see, how should I answer this (wink, wink), socially
I'm looking for
something REALLY hot, friends only, soulmate, travel companion, the yin to my yang, romance, relationship, dating, conversation
My Sign
i was born in january, capricorn : dec. 22-jan. 19
Bluegrass, Jazz, Rock, Celtic, Jazz-Fusion, Techno, Chamber, Metal, Trance, Reggae, Classical, Motown, Ska, Folk, Pop, Soul, Hard Rock, Post Rock, Funk, Heavy Metal, Progressive Rock, World, Alternative Rock, Indie, R and B
Fitness & Sports
swimming, walking, bowling, working out, hiking
Health Related
western medicine, minor health issues, diabetic, minor dietary issues


About My Match  (What I'm looking for)

Hobbies & Interests
dancing, fleamarkets, internet, killing zombies, magic, mime, movies, music, painting, photography, reading, shopping, television, wine tasting, writing
Their Body Type
a few extra pounds, athletic, average, pleasantly plump, skinny, slender, slim, supermodel
action, bollywood, comedy, drama, horror, indie, romance, romantic comedy, sci-fi
Asexual, Celibate, Sapiosexual, Straight
Their Ethnicity
African American, Asian, Biracial, Caucasian, Hispanic / Latino, Indian, Inter-racial, Middle Eastern, Mixed Race, Multi-racial, Native American, Other, Pacific Islander
seeing someone, separated, single, single - never married, widowed
Have Kids
no - do not want kids, yes - grown and out of the house, yes - single parent home
Their Education Level
Bachelor's Degree, college grad, Doctorate, graduate school, high school grad, Master's Degree, post-Graduate, some college
Artistic / Musical, Clerical / Administrative, Computer related / Hardware, Education / Academic Research, Entertainment / Media, Executive / Management, Food Service, Hospitality / Travel, Internet, Journalist / Writer, Legal Services, Medical / Health Services, Other, Politics / Goverment / Military, Technical / Science / Engineering
Do they smoke?
420, no - open to dating smokers though, socially
Do they drink?
socially, wine
They currently live
Socially, they are
a couch potato, better in small groups, comic relief, flirt, home body, loner, shy at first, but warm up quickly
Political Views
democrat, green party, independent, liberal, progressive, socialist
Food Related
Comfort, Diet Every Now & Then, Eat Out Frequently, Fast Food, Fine Dining, French, Indian, Italian, Japanese, Junk Food Junkie, Mediterranean, Omnivore, Raw Food, Soul Food, Spicy, Vegan, Vegetarian, Always Dieting, BRAINS!!!, Carnivore
nonconformist, professional, romantic, unconventional, activist, artistic, eccentric, extrovert, flirt, free spirit, fun loving, geek, hipster, intellectual, introvert, liberal, loner, lover, nerd
Religious Views
Agnostic, Atheist, Buddhist, Deist, Jewish, Not Religious, Not Religious, but Spiritual, Pagan, Pantheist, Wiccan
prescription only
They are looking for
conversation, dating, friends only, relationship, romance, roommate, soulmate, the yin to my yang, travel companion
Their Sign
i don't believe in zodiac signs
Cat, Dog
Alternative Rock, Bluegrass, Celtic, Chamber, Classical, Folk, Funk, Hard Rock, Heavy Metal, Jazz, Jazz-Fusion, Metal, Post Rock, Progressive Rock, R and B, Reggae, Rock, Ska, Soul, Techno, Trance, World
Their Preferred Pronouns
No Pronoun Preference
Social Justice
Black Lives Matter Advocate, Climate Change Believer, Feminist Movement Advocate, Pro-Choice Advocate, Union Advocate, Vaccination Advocate
Love Language
Physical Touch, Quality Time, Words of Affirmation

Favorite videos

No video.

Current Favorite Websites for BENSPINOZA*

No Favorite Websites added yet.

Last forum posts of BENSPINOZA on Celibate Passions

No forum posts yet

Current Favorite Books for BENSPINOZA

No Favorite Books added yet.

Visit the Celibate Passions Book Library

Current Favorite Video Games for BENSPINOZA

No Favorite video games added yet.

Visit the Celibate Passions video game Library

Celibate Passions: Report This Profile

Help us keep Celibate Passions free of spam and fake profiles.

If you see spam, fake information, nonsense information, offensive information or an empty profile, please click the button below and enter your reason for reporting this profile. It will be reviewed promptly.
Note: Reporting Tool Only Visible To Logged In Members
Keep Scrolling winking emoticon

Celibacy & Abstinence Sites
Celibacy Research & Resources
Celibacy & Asexual Dating Sites
Celibate & Asexual Information
Online Dating Sites
Webcam Sites
Personals / Chat Sites
Instant Messaging/VideoChat
Funny Sites

FIND Other Singles In

Ad Partner