Celibate Passions

Seek asexual but affectionate soulmate

I'm an intellectual, musician (drummer/percussion), secular, nontraditional, free spirit asexual/low libido/celibate(pick one)searching for a female soulmate and companion, someone I can trust and confide in sans judgment unless its constructive and done with sensitivity and support. Among my interests are: music, leftist politics, intellectual conversations and pursuits, philosophy, the arts and humanities, concerts, film, festivals, book talks, museums, traveling--you know, things like that. I am a very youthful (so I'm told), gentle, emotionally and financially stable, articulate, funny and punny, follicly-challenged, bespectacled goateed hip and hep SWM 50-something who truly gets along comfortably well with people in their 20s as well as those older. Age/generation and race/ethnicities are no barriers to me if they are not to you. While I prefer meeting someone in the Washington DC metro area, geography need not be an absolute barrier, depending, so other locales are cool, depending. I may have low libido but I am affectionate and crave affection. Most important to me is finding true companionship with someone real, genuine, caring and loving to connect with, to relate to and feel comfortable with, to share lives and to trust confidences with. I have so much to give and to share with another. I am primarily interested in a platonic relationship, but open to whatever transpires as long as it is positive. I prefer that you be single. Oh, and why am I not married by now? "A married philosopher belongs to comedy." And yet, I do like comedy as life itself, mine anyway, is a theater of the absurd.

Body Type

a few extra pounds

Movies

animation, classics, indie, psychological thrillers, horror, romantic comedy, sci-fi, drama, comedy

Orientation

celibate, straight, asexual

Eye Color

blue

Hair Color

bald

Ethnicity

Caucasian

Relationship

single - never married

Have Kids

no - do not want kids

Education Level

college grad

Profession

Other, Artistic / Musical, Clerical / Administrative, Internet, Education / Academic Research

Income level

that's private

Do you smoke?

no - open to dating smokers though

I currently live

alone

Socially, I am

shy at first, but warm up quickly, loner, home body, side kick, flirt, better in small groups, comic relief, a couch potato

Political Views

progressive, independent, green party, socialist, liberal

Food Related

Indian, Chinese, Diet Every Now & Then, Vegetarian, Comfort, Italian, Fast Food, Eat Out Frequently, Fine Dining, BRAINS!!!, Organic

Personality

hipster, professional, intellectual, introvert, extrovert, artistic, liberal, loner, activist, nerd, flirt, fun loving, romantic, lover

Individuality

goatee

Religious Views

Agnostic, Pantheist, Jewish, Atheist, Not Religious

Drugs

let's see, how should I answer this (wink, wink), socially

I'm looking for

something REALLY hot, friends only, soulmate, travel companion, the yin to my yang, romance, relationship, dating, conversation

My Sign

i was born in january, capricorn : dec. 22-jan. 19

Gender

Male

Music

Bluegrass, Jazz, Rock, Celtic, Jazz-Fusion, Techno, Chamber, Metal, Trance, Reggae, Classical, Motown, Ska, Folk, Pop, Soul, Hard Rock, Post Rock, Funk, Heavy Metal, Progressive Rock, World, Alternative Rock, Indie, R and B

Fitness & Sports

swimming, walking, bowling, working out, hiking

Health Related

western medicine, minor health issues, diabetic, minor dietary issues

Languages

English

Groups:

Asexual ; Seeking Friends ; Seeking Platonic Relationship ; Seeking Non-Sexual Relationship ; Seeking Non-Sexual Marriage

Hobbies & Interests

dancing, fleamarkets, internet, killing zombies, magic, mime, movies, music, painting, photography, reading, shopping, television, wine tasting, writing

Movies

action, bollywood, comedy, drama, horror, indie, romance, romantic comedy, sci-fi

Orientation

asexual, celibate, straight

Relationship

seeing someone, separated, single, single - never married, widowed

Have Kids

no - do not want kids, yes - grown and out of the house, yes - single parent home

Profession

Education / Academic Research, Entertainment / Media, Hospitality / Travel, Internet, Journalist / Writer, Legal Services, Medical / Health Services, Other, Politics / Goverment / Military, Technical / Science / Engineering, Artistic / Musical, Clerical / Administrative

Do they smoke?

420, no - open to dating smokers though, socially

Do they drink?

socially, wine

They currently live

alone

Political Views

democrat, green party, independent, liberal, progressive, socialist

Food Related

Comfort, Diet Every Now & Then, Eat Out Frequently, Fast Food, Fine Dining, French, Indian, Italian, Japanese, Junk Food Junkie, Mediterranean, Omnivore, Raw, Soul Food, Spicy, Vegan, Vegetarian, Always Dieting, BRAINS!!!, Carnivore

Personality

activist, extrovert, flirt, fun loving, geek, intellectual, introvert, liberal, loner, lover, nerd, pirate, professional, romantic

Religious Views

Agnostic, Atheist, Buddhist, Deist, Jewish, Not Religious, Not Religious, but Spiritual, Pagan, Pantheist, Wiccan

Drugs

prescription only

They are looking for

conversation, dating, friends only, relationship, romance, roommate, soulmate, the yin to my yang, travel companion

Their Sign

i don't believe in zodiac signs

Gender

Female

Music

Alternative Rock, Bluegrass, Celtic, Chamber, Classical, Folk, Funk, Hard Rock, Heavy Metal, Jazz, Jazz-Fusion, Post Rock, Progressive Rock, R and B, Reggae, Rock, Ska, Soul, Techno, Trance

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