Benspinoza, 68

i'm an intellectual, musician (drummer/percussion), secular, nontraditional, free spirit asexual/low libido/celibate(pick one)searching for a female soulmate and companion, someone i can trust and confide in sans judgment unless its constructive and done with sensitivity and support.

among my interests are: music, leftist politics, intellectual conversations and pursuits, philosophy, the arts and humanities, concerts, film, festivals, book talks, museums, traveling--you know, things like that.

i am a very youthful (so i'm told), gentle, emotionally and financially stable, articulate, funny and punny, follicly-challenged, bespectacled goateed hip and hep swm 60-something who truly gets along comfortably well with people in their 20s as well as those older. age/generation and race/ethnicities are no barriers to me if they are not to you. while i prefer meeting someone in the washington dc metro area, geography need not be an absolute barrier, depending, so other locales are cool, depending.

i may have low libido but i am affectionate and crave affection. most important to me is finding true companionship with someone real, genuine, caring and loving to connect with, to relate to and feel comfortable with, to share lives and to trust confidences with. i have so much to give and to share with another. i am primarily interested in a platonic relationship, but open to whatever transpires as long as it is positive. i prefer that you be single. i identify as romantic asexual craving affectionate touching, hugging and kissing.

oh, and why am i not married by now? "a married philosopher belongs to comedy." and yet, i do like comedy as life itself, mine anyway, is a theater of the absurd.