The reason I am celibate...

[enchantedwillow]

hi im a single parent. i have been celibate since my little girl was born.. which has now been 14 months.
to be honest with you if i do some deep soul searching, i actually had S-- to have the child that i always wanted since i was young. i dont and have not really enjoyed the thought of having S-- just want the closeness that comes from it.. ie the cuddles and the feeling of being loved..
so now im looking for someone to show me love without the s--. im happy for it to be male or female..
someone to spend cosy nights in watching movies.. or having deep conversations . cuddles
im spiritual , wiccan and im looking for someone that will except me for me.. not what they can get from me.

[catiefaye]

`I am very happy being celebate. It is a spiritual decision for me. I have a whole network of beliefs that come together to support emotional calm. Every so often something breaks through that - usually creeps up, like I find myself listening to rock music and then talking with lower consciousness or some such thing. It can be extremely difficult if my attention turns from spiritual matters... which is uncommon. I'm thinking about having more spiritual reminders around me, to keep my attention where it is healthiest.

Anyway, it is the profound feelings of spirituality that turned me toward celibacy... and it's been a very fulfilling experience!

[xhollydoll (deleted)]

`I'm celibate by choice. No religious reasons, or disabilities, or anything like that. I'm 20 years old, never had sex, and I'm perfectly happy that way as I see no need for it. I don't have any real desires for sex, and I don't want children. So why change a good thing? I'm fully planning on remaining a lifelong celibate.

[pinklillies (deleted)]

kujayhawker1973 wrote: I choose to be celibate because it takes a lot of pressure off of focusing only on S-- in an intimate relationship. Take S-- out of the mix and you get something pure and beautiful.[/b]

Debra
i totally agree