Thought I'd do...

[oddmanout]

what the forum title says and introduce myself. My reasons for being celibate are a little complicated. I'm transgendered and also somewhat asexual but not totally. So basically, I want --- sometimes but never badly enough to deal with all the obstacles I would face being a transsexual. I think I could enjoy --- with the right person but for someone like me the odds of finding that person are the same as winning the lottery I'm okay with the idea of never having --- but would still like someone to share my life with. No one is an island as they say. For now I just keep trucking on.

[justminxy]

`OK so I know it isn't my business, but as this is the www I can't help but inquire since it is here. Your bio says you are seeking a man, it also says you are open but preferably a man. Your post say you are transgendered and your photo shows a photo that society would associate with males. What drew me to yoru photo and then your bio etc. is that I can always tell (a lot about people) and I thought that is a beautiful "man". So I am confusing myself and this is how my stupid mind overworks itself as non of this is relevent anyway or my business lol. but... if yu are transgendered but you put your ------ orientation as gay but you appear "male" are you even gay at all? Also how can you be a little asexual? I'm sorry. You just look an awful lot like a girl , a client from my old job, who is expecting a baby with her life partner (both born female)and after getting to know them and talking to her about how society is and how their lives have been, she reminds me a lot of you. She made me a little sad because I'm not sure her life is what she really chose but she kind of made such a big mess of it already that it is what it is-ready or not. O.k. over *nalyzing useless data-my life story. Anyway you're a beautiful person either way-so you will find someone who will share your life on this planet we call earth under your terms, someday. But you have to try and be positive.

[oddmanout]

justminxy wrote: but... if yu are transgendered but you put your ------ orientation as gay but you appear "male" are you even gay at all?


Yes... I went from female to male. Being transgendered has nothing to do with ------ orientation, which is a common mistake people make. Trans people can be gay or straight like everyone else.

I admit that picture is a bit out of date... It was taken about halfway through my transition.