Hello, Osiyo, Ciao, Dobry den, Guten tag, Buenos días

[kynmike (deleted)]

Before you ask, no I do not speak all of the above languages (Cherokee, Czech, German, Spanish). I only speak English. I figured I'd say hello to as many as I could though.

(Please excuse the boldness in my following words.)

Joking aside, I've been celibate for almost nine years now (by choice) and wanted to find somewhere that I could talk without women asking me what my **** size is, or for me to send them a pic of it. I swear, this generation is depressing the hell out of me. No one goes to school, everyone sues (for the free ride I'm guessing) and on top of it all it seems that the government loves today's caveman attitutdes from the kids.

I'm really not hard to get along with, treat me the way you want me to treat you. I'm really that simple. I'm a country boy from Ky, I love being alive, I love to laugh, and I love honesty.

I think I wrote too much info, sorry about that y'all. Now whether or not I get replies (or any new friends) it'll be cool. I just hope that y'all have a nice life. Thanks for reading.

Sincerely,
Michael (Mike)

[leeanne]

Hi Mike!
I love your no BS attitude, its really refreshing to see there are still people out there who tell it like it is.
- Lee Anne

[nick8472 (deleted)]

I feel the same way you do kynmike. I think these things are worse in the US & I believe I would be much better off if I wer in a more conservative traditional part of the world

[qlmmlp (deleted)]

`I have been celibate for over 12 years now (by choice) and I get the same reaction in that people think I’m crazy. They just can’t understand why such a pretty little thing would deprive “them†of s--. And guys drop you within an hr after meeting you if your not ready to run to their place to have sex, or they hover over you all night begging you and they don’t even buy you a drink. I’m serious! And they are blunt about it too. It’s just sick.

I could understand their behavior if I was dressed with my b--bs hanging out and a skirt up to my elbows and going around and flirting with all the guys but I’m not. I’m just sitting quietly in my corner with a couple of other people (friends/co-workers or family) minding my own business. Once they see I’m a shy sweet thing they want to haul me off asap to see if I’m good in bed. It’s S-- first and talk later… if you were a good lay. Guys that are 10 years younger then me are the worst. Needless to say after going to the bars a few times a few years after I left my ex I don’t go anymore.

It’s easier for a girl to say she is celibate. The guys just laughs and think they are joking or call them a lesbian but if a guy says he is celibate they look at him as if he has a few screws loose or gay so they don’t talk about it and live a lonely life thinking that no woman would want them. And since they don’t talk about it it makes it impossible for a girl who is also celibate to find him.

This is a true story. A couple of years before I moved into this small county town, (I have since moved out) where everybody knows everybody, a man actually took his own life because he just couldn’t find a companion. They said he was a very nice down to earth quiet decent looking guy they though I would have liked, but he thought he would never find a woman because he couldn’t have s--. He was so lonely and became depressed and lost all hope that he took his own life. He just couldn’t accept the thought of having to live the rest of his life alone. Now if he wouldn’t have lost hope and waited a couple of years we could have gotten together. Maybe we wouldn’t have been compatible but at least we could have given it a try. It made me very sad that someone would take their own life because they were not able to have s--. Specially when there ARE so many loving woman out there who are celibate.

People who are gay aren’t scared to say so now, and people looking for S-- aren’t scared to say so, so why are we so scared to let others know we are unwilling or unable to have sex? Maybe we should throw parades and march down the streets to let people know that you can have a loving relationship without s--. It would be a good way to get us together to find a partner. And lets open bars for just people who are single celibate so that we could meet others of our kind. Hey! That’s a great idea! Who wants to open a bar like this with me!? LOL…

Sorry for such a long post. I don’t talk much but I can write up a storm. Once I get started I can’t stop. LOL..

[nick8472 (deleted)]

`That's a very sad story qlmmlp but I'm somehow not surprised. It's really hard for a guy to find a relationship when he talks about not wanting sex; lots of people assume he's secretly gay or something or they think he has something else that is wrong. I doubt I'll find love either but it's not because of the no S-- thing; I'd be willing to compromise on that but I have lots of other things limiting me. I know lots of guys with much less limiting em who can not find any women so it seems very unlikely I'll ever find anyone.

[lif3 (deleted)]

`Wow...you know that story you wrote qlmmlp kind of describes me. I'm just in the depress stage right now, but I wouldn't even fathom going all the way as to laying 6 feet deep in a grave just because I couldn't find a companion. I definitely know how that guy feels and I have been there but haven't been back just yet. I feel that finding someone on this site will greatly improve my low self esteem and give some meaning towards living my life. Also to the original poster, congrats on voicing your opinion so strongly and with pride. Being celibate ain't a crime, neither is being promiscuous but we all know which action leads toward the scenic route. Enough talk, thanks again Ron.