notinable
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![]() Posted: Post subject: celibacy CAN work! |
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hi-im called notinable and im new here.have had no luck meeting anyone yet,but hopefully that will change.i have had periods in my life where i have of my own accord gone without --- and discovered relationships CAN BE MEANINGFUL if yourwith the right person.but we live in a society where much emphasis is placed on not just sex,but self-gratification in general.doing whaterver feels good at the time and the consequenses be damned is the norm rather than the exception.i, too,have been guilty of this short-sighted behavior.but afterward im left with an emptyness-because i discovered physical pleasure (though quite enjoyable at the time)tends to be short-lived.i have also experienced two relationships that were without ---.one was really pleasureable,as the woman i was with focused on real,true happiness of the spirit,not the body.not knowing any better at the time i didnt stick with her as i should have.after a time,i began to long for the pleasures of the flesh and lost her.the other relationship was with a woman who told me she was celibate-but that she enjoyed "certain limited acts of pleasure".what started out as "limited" eventually went all the way,and there was the emptyness again.live and learn.
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