Celibate Passions

Well, hello. I really thought I was onto something when I found this site. But I was disappointed when I searched for men in my area and found that there were only about six. I'm still here, looking. I'm newly 21 and never been in a relationship. I am a virgin. Right now, I have mixed feelings about it. When I see what other women are doing and sometimes even my mother, I am proud of being "pure". I've recently come into some conversations where I found my virginal state embarrassing. I've never really admitted it to anyone, afraid of making myself a target of unwanted advances. My father and grandmother have always said that a man's main goal is sex and that I should be more careful because I'm a virgin. If men can tell, which I don't know if they can, they are going to want to "violate" me and make me dirty. I grew up in a very religious household. Even in high school sex wasn't a problem. No one has ever been interested in me that way up until recently. I don't really believe that his desires were sincere. He just liked getting a rise out of me. But he made me discover that I really could be in trouble with an attractive, persistent man. He's gone now and I have peaked no one else's interests. I can be proud of being a virgin and not succumbing to the desires of the flesh. But I am extremely embarrassed about having never been kissed. I feel so far behind my peers. It would be on thing to say that it is all by choice. But that is not the case. I have never had the opportunity to change my situation. I am definitely not the type to go after someone. To make matters worse, I am not attracted to the men that are attracted to me. I can see and feel them look me up and down. I try so hard not to make eye contact so as not to seem responsive to their attentions. I'm fine by myself as long as I have plenty of movies to occupy my mind.

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Body Type

fat and proud, overweight, thick, voluptuous

Do you drink?

socially

Do you smoke?

socially

Drugs

never

Education Level

college grad, some college

Ethnicity

African American, Caucasian

Eye Color

brown

Food Related

Carnivore, Chinese, Chocoholic, Comfort, French, Indian, Italian, Japanese

Hair Color

dark brown

Have Kids

no - definitely want them though

Hobbies

computers, cooking & recipes, dancing, internet, movies, music, photography, reading, television, video games, writing

I currently live

with parents

I'm looking for

conversation, dating, mr. right, penpal, relationship, soulmate, the yin to my yang

Income level

Less than $25,000

Individuality

piercings

Movies

action, bollywood, comedy, drama, horror, indie, nothing but porn, romance, romantic comedy, sci-fi

My Sign

i was born in november, scorpio : oct. 23–nov. 21

Orientation

celibate, straight

Personality

geek, intellectual, introvert, loner, nerd, pirate, playa hater, professional, total slacker

Pets

Dog, Guinea Pigs

Political Views

not interested in politics

Profession

Other

Relationship

single - never married

Religious Views

Jehovah's Witness, Not Religious

Socially, I am

a couch potato, better in small groups, home body, loner, shy at first, but warm up quickly, side kick

Groups:

Involuntary Celibacy ; Virgin Until Marriage ; Seeking Friends

Seeking

Man

Height

5'06 to 6'02

Weight

150 to 220 lbs.

Age

21 to 35 years old

Location

USA IL Chicago

Do they drink?

no, socially

Do they smoke?

no - open to dating smokers though, only when I drink, socially

Eye Color

black, blue, brown, glass, gray, green, hazel

Food Related

Carnivore, Comfort, French, Indian, Italian, Japanese

Hair Color

a little gray, auburn, bald, black, dark brown, light brown, red

Have Kids

no - definitely want them though

Hobbies

computers, cooking & recipes, dancing, gardening, internet, movies, music, photography, reading, television, travel, video games, wine tasting, working out, writing

Individuality

faux-hawk, mohawk, piercings, tattoos

Movies

action, bollywood, comedy, drama, horror, indie, nothing but porn, romance, romantic comedy, sci-fi

Orientation

straight

Personality

geek, intellectual, introvert, loner, lover, nerd, pirate, professional, punk, romantic

Political Views

not interested in politics

Profession

Artistic / Musical / Writer, Banking / Financial Services / Real Estate, Clerical / Administrative, Computer related / Hardware, Construction / Craftsman, Education / Academic Research, Entertainment / Media, Executive / Management, Food Service, Hospitality / Travel, Internet, Legal Services, Manufacturing / Distributions, Medical / Health Services, Other, Sales / Marketing, Technical / Science / Engineering, Transportation / Trucking

Relationship

single - never married

Religious Views

Jehovah's Witness, Not Religious

Socially, they are

a couch potato, anti-social, better in small groups, comic relief, home body, loner, shy at first, but warm up quickly

Their Body Type

a few extra pounds, athletic, average, fit, overweight, thick

Their Education Level

college grad, currently in college, high school grad, some college

Their Ethnicity

African American, Asian, Caucasian, Hispanic / Latino, Indian, Inter-racial, Middle Eastern, Mixed Race, Native American, Other, Pacific Islander

They are looking for

conversation, dating, friends only, miss right, penpal, relationship, soulmate, the yin to my yang

They currently live

alone, family and friends visit often, in a van down by the river, with an insignificant other, with parents, with pets, with roommate(s)

No links.

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